My love and I stayed home this Holiday season, and rather then really officially celebrate either or any set of traditions we’re mostly celebrating things like cooking for each other, quiet walks, and b-movies. Today is Saturday, so after doing a few little work things, we’re going to settle in to watch Stay Tuned. I [...]
In our sexy po-mo late night world of incredibly intense collective experiences (rock shows, elections) and a generally increasing ease about human sexuality, it can get hard to tell if your trail of broken hearts is a badge of honour, a symptom of the culture, or a sign that something in your relationship style has [...]
Mouthing Off by Borrowed Time
Shouting, I’ve learned, should not be reserved for the stage, or bottled up till it forces it’s way out with inchoate anger. Shouting, like stretching, should be done pretty regular in fact.
This is one small bit of how our relationship has survived and grown more fun, happy, healthy, and interesting [...]
It would be a mistake to assume that everyone wants monogamy, or that heterosexual monogamy is the best way to be because of some sort of cosmic Create Progeny! priority, at least if your circles are at all alternative or indie or in any way diverse or contemporary. That mode is outdated for many. Despite [...]
One thing that defines my relationship with my lover man over here, and that I think might be a characteristic of a thing called “Indie Love” (if such a thing exists) is that we keep really weird hours. We work for ourselves, from home, we set our own deadlines, so at different times we might [...]
Yes, this is an Indie Love article about race.
More Colours by Szeretlek_Ma
Call me crazy but I think if you are falling flat in loveland you should try getting out of your bubble, as far out as you fricken can, and you should do so by aiming for people and events that are culturally [...]
This is a post from the morning after the Kinks Konvention tribute night… that I did not attend. I’m feeling freaked out at having made the decision not to go, but a few factors made it necessary, and a few other factors hopefully make it ok:
My love is sick, and he’s never sick. Last [...]